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Be a Dominatrix

Dominatrix

The term “dominatrix” is often used to describe a dominant professional woman who charges for participating in erotic games with submissive clients. Most dominatrixes  are not professionals, but vocational dominants. A vocational dominant is a firm, energetic person with control over their relationships, both sexual and social. Professional dominatrices do not usually get involved in any type of sexual contact with their clients.

A dominatrix is ​​a woman wearing a rubber or leather bodice and high boots with high heels or, if you want something more sexy, black lingerie, stockings and high heels. Many professional dominatrixes  wear attire of this type in their work to meet the expectations of the clients.

How are most customers?

They can be of three types mainly. First is the typical man of good manners and manners between 40 and 60 years who liked to be humiliated and flogged. Then there are the men between 40 and 50 years old with a high position in their careers, but tired of responsibilities and being under control. Finally, there are the younger ones, who are looking for a dominant woman because they are usually quite submissive and expect them to dominate the situation.

What do you usually ask for more often?

One of the preferred practices are humiliation in public. It is usually men who like to be treated like a girl, be dressed in feminine garments and be flogged or spat on or insulted in public.

Be a dominatrix.

To be a good dominatrix you have to have things very clear, that is, meet your submissive (what things they like, what you would be willing to do and not, etc …) and be able to live up to your expectations.

Some dominatrixes charge a fixed salary, others per session and most require, before starting to work with someone, a tribute in the form of money or a gift to prove that it is really worth spending their time with a being as insignificant as your customer.

How to get clients?

There are websites of supply and demand in which you can advertise. Those interested send e-mails of the offers and say what they are looking for. Finally, the dominatrix is ​​the one that chooses according to their preferences and tastes.

Being a dominatrix can change your vision and perspective of seeing the world. All people sell their work in one way or another. It is not, in this case, feminism because men are controlled because money is exchanged and under the terms of the dominatrix previously agreed with their submissive.

Finally, it does not have to affect your sexual life in any aspect, since these type of humiliating practices does not have to bring any physical contact between the dominatrix and its sub.