INTRODUCTION INTO BDSM
What is the term BDSM? To begin we must be sure of the meaning of these acronyms;BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism).
Most of us practice BDSM in varying degrees during our sexual games without realizing it. For example, at some point during play with your partner, you take control as to what happens next but you need your partner to give you consent to continue. In this situation, you are the Dominant and your partner is the Submissive. Now to begin with the basics of these sort of practices and a better idea about these types of games and tastes.
1. Do it correctly!
To begin with, you will have to sign a contract where you mark and specify your limits, it will also have to be made clear how many fantasies you have and what you are both willing to do. When you sign, you’ll be one step closer to play.
2. Discover your limits
It is very important that before you start the world of BDSM, you discover your limits. To do this, we recommend that you try a BDSM kit as an example, the 50 Shades of gray keep still Bed Bondage Kit or the 50 Shades of Gray completely his Bed Bondage kit.
With any of these kits not only will you be able to restrain your partner, but you will also begin to discover where both your limits are. You can tie, whip, blindfold … And find out if you enjoy this and discover slowly if you want more.
3. Look for your role
After practicing this, you will be sure to know what role you like most, whether to dominate or be dominated. You won’t know until you actually try it. Some people are submissive, others are dominant; and others can enjoy both roles, this is called a switch (this is when you like being both Dominant and Submissive).
4. B-D-S-M
Begins with Bondage
We started with the B of BDSM. Bondage is the most used technique of BDSM, being practiced also in totally normal relationships. But we know very little about Bondage. Bondage is any technique that allows you to immobilize your partner, that is, when you hold your wrists tight, tie you to the head of the bed, when you hold your hair, when you use handcuffs, etc… To do this, firstly it is advisable to use bondage equipment of materials that do not damage any part of the body. And, later, you can pass to a more advanced and exciting techniques of Bondage techniques.
We go to Domination and Submission
The DS of BDSM, is to dominate and submit; and for this, it is necessary to establish the rules of conduct. You can put as many rules as you like. And you can create the punishments that you like and that excite: spanking, using a whip, tickling with a feather …
We end with Masochism
BDSM involves pleasure through pain. There is a fine line between pleasure and pain and it can be very stimulating. It may sound strange at first, but you actually end up enjoying the spanking, biting, slapping your ass We all have a Submissive and a Dominant inside! Now it’s time to bring it to light and play and discover. Do you dare to try it?
